My Husband Got a Family - Ep. 19 Subtitles by KBS
Who asked you to buy me a laundry machine?
I wasn't happy at all after receiving it.
Let me just get everything off my chest.
I heard from your mother earlier that....
you guys lost all of your money after investing into your brother's business.
Yeah.
I'm sure it's hard for you too, since you work.
But how can you lose the money that Bang Gwi-nam worked hard to earn from doing surgeries and working late hours?
That's not right.
Mother.
Oh.
You're here!
Yeah.
Honey, can you get me a cup of water?
Yeah.
You came home early today.
Yeah.
I actually.....
have something to say.
Okay. Go ahead.
Mother, are you still not.....
comfortable with me?
What do you mean?
If you have something to say....
I want you to say it.
And if you have something to scold me about.....
then scold me...
without....
hesitation.
Are you saying that because you heard me scolding your wife?
That's not it.
No.
Mother.
If you have something to scold my wife about, then as my mom, you should.
But...
from now on, I hope that you can do so when....
I'm here and....
with me....
as well.
I would like it.....
if you didn't call my wife....
here alone to....
scold her when.....
I'm not here.
You're not....
upset or anything like that, are you?
No, I'm not upset.
I understand what you're saying.
Then we'll....
get going.
Okay, go ahead.
Good night, mother.
Yeah.
Here's the ointment.
The poison from the eggs are making your hands so rough.
Why do you keep doing this?
Let's just quit everything.....
and let's just live off rent payments.
What's wrong?
Nothing.
I feel so empty.
Is something wrong?
I thought....
that Cha Yoon-hee....
spends too easily and there was something else that I heard....
so I said something, and Bang Gwi-nam must've heard.....
then told me not to scold his wife when he's not there.
What did I do?
What did I tell you?
I told you to leave them alone.
You think I did something wrong too?
What did I do that was so wrong?
Was I really that wrong?
Did I really do something that was so wrong?
What did I do that was so wrong?
He's a son that we met after 30 years.
To him, Cha Yoon-hee....
is more of a family than we are.
Yeah.
Even you, who I've lived with for over 30 years, isn't on my side.
You don't even understand how I feel.
So there's no way that my son that I met after 30 years would understand me.
Mom!
Are you crying?
Why?
Why are you crying?
What's wrong?
Bang Yi-sook.
You must've been upset.
Thank you.
I'm glad I have a daughter.
Bang Yi-sook....
ever since some day.....
after I was 30 years old....
my life....
consisted of nothing besides finding Bang Gwi-nam.
So the fact that I found Bang Gwi-nam....
is an unbelievably happy thing.
But...
now that I look back....
my life is so....
What is this?
My life seems so pointless.
I want....
to be a cool and trendy mom.....
to Bang Gw-nam and Cha Yoon-hee.
But I keep being closed-minded and having more things to be upset about....
and I get hurt by things that aren't a big deal.
I don't like seeing myself like this.
So....
Bang Gwi-nam must've thought that too.
He must've thought so lowly of me.
Mom.
Why would he think that?
Mom, he wouldn't.
Mom!
How can you say that to my mother-in-law?
If you said that, you should've told me that you did.
Do you know how surprised and shocked I was?
Of course she said something about it!
Why is your mother-in-law like that?
She told me that it's okay.
Did you believe her when she said that?
You make me go crazy.
Bang Gwi-nam!
Let's eat!
Mom!
Honey.
What did....
you and mother talk about earlier?
Did....
she say anything by any chance?
I actually....
heard what my mom said to you.
But...
you didn't....
say anything to her, did you?
I did.
What did you tell her?
Well...
I asked her to scold us together if she needed to.
And I didn't....
like her doing that when.....
I'm not there.
You said that to her?
Really in.....
that way?
Yeah.
Why?
Your mom must've been really upset.
No.
Just in case she got upset by it....
I asked her if she was okay, and....
she said that she was perfectly fine.
You really don't know anything.
When your mom says it's okay, it actually means that it's definitely not okay.
Why?
It's just like that.
Good boy.
That's right, Bang Jang-goon.
The newspaper is a report of worldly common sense....
and the textbook of the society.
Where are you clipping your nails?
Honey!
What's wrong?
This fool was clipping his nails on the newspaper....
before I even read it!
Why did you do that?
You know how much your dad loves the newspaper.
Yeah.
The newspaper is more important to you than your son, right?
You're really too much.
Bang Jang-goon!
You should eat breakfast before you go.
What are you doing?
I'm mad, but I thought that I should at least eat breakfast before I go.
What's for breakfast?
I'm sure you wouldn't starve anywhere you go.
Hi.
Yeah, hello.
You must be going to work.
Yeah.
I'm working where Cha Yoon-hee introduced me.
I need to tell her that I'm thankful....
but I haven't been able to yet.
You should.
Definitely tell her.
Okay.
I will.
But....
you see....
mom.....
cried last night.
Honestly....
we don't know how you've lived your life, but....
you don't know how we lived entirely either.
Yeah, you're right.
I.....
was born on the day you were lost.
So I've never celebrated my birthday.
I heard they didn't even celebrate my first birthday.
Because in our household....
that day was the most sorrowful.
I've lived my life....
feeling sorry to all of my family.....
for being born that day.
I see.
I didn't know.
I was okay with it.
But my mom....
lived a very hard life.
And....
she- missed you a lot.
That's....
not something I can describe, because people who don't experience it don't understand.
I don't know about anything else.....
but just don't make mom sad.
Please.
Then...
I'll get going.
I heard you're sick.
No, I'm just a little tired.
I should get up soon.
You don't need to get up. Get some more rest if you're tired.
Can I?
Oh my gosh.
Hey.
We've lived together for forty years. Are you still uncomfortable around me?
Of course.
Well....
I feel the same way around you too.
What?
Why do you feel that way around me?
I want to take Bang Gwi-nam and Cha Yoon-hee....
to Sung-ju this weekend.
I needed to know if that's okay.
You're going to the cemetery?
Yeah.
I wanted to stop by there....
The family there really wants to see Bang Gwi-nam......
so I want to introduce him....
and stop by Mt. Gaya on the way too.
Why do you need my permission for that?
You can just ask Bang Gwi-nam and his wife if they want to go.
They're your son and your daughter-in-law. They belong to you.
They don't belong to me. It's not like they would listen to me anyways.
Don't say that in front of them. I'm sure they'll hate it.
Did.....
the kids....
do anything to upset you?
No.
It's just....
Its just what?
Between you and me, my husband always takes your side.
There are no such things as sides in a family.
But Bang Gwi-nam....
is always on his wife's side.
In the end...
I feel like there's no one on my side.
I think....
I've gone crazy.
Maybe it's because of the season change.
Who is it?
Grandma!
Come in.
Okay.
Why....
don't you guys come over for breakfast?
Because we kept on being late to work.
Take a seat. Do you want some fruits?
It's okay.
But where's Bang Gwi-nam?
He's outside.
Grandma, you're here?
But...
what's that?
You see...
I was doing laundry.
You wash the blankets?
Yeah, we....
split house chores this way.
I do the work that requires strength...
and my wife does the work that requires the brains.
But Bang Gwi-nam's probably smarter.
What?
It's nothing.
Oh yeah.
You guys need to go to Sung-ju with me this weekend.
We have a cemetery there.
I see.
A lot of our relatives are there too, so let's visit them.
Can you guys go?
Are you okay with it?
Do you have other plans?
No, I don't.
Grandma, we're free to go.
We'll come with you.
Okay.
Then let's do that.
Okay.
Oh yeah. But...
did you guys do anything to upset your mom?
She didn't look well all morning.
Then I'll get going.
Okay.
Good bye.
Bye!
See.
Your mom's upset.
I should go see her.
No, I'll go.
I'm the reason....
that she's upset.
Is mom inside?
Mom went out.
To where?
See, Um Chung-ae.
You'll feel more down if you stay home.
It's nice be out, right?
Yeah.
I feel a lot better.
Hey.
Would the ground disappear from a sigh like that?
Don't be like that, Um Soon-ae.
If you came to look at the flowers, then look at the flowers.
How many of these perfect and beautiful spring days do you think we have left during our life time?
That's true.
All the flowers are going to fall off because of your sighing.
You guys don't know how I feel.
Do you know how I feel?
People only know how they feel.
Even though you got divorced, at least you've been married before!
I'll get you a microphone. Why don't you advertise it?
Um Chung-ae is the same.
You found the son that you've longed for that long.....
so what is it that you need now?
I'm the only one that is empty handed at this age.
What's wrong with her this time?
That's what I'm saying.
I thought she liked being both physically and emotionally pure.
We can't do anything about her being bipolar.
Um Soon-ae is going through menopause too.
It's understandable for her to act like that looking back at her life.
Um Chung-ae.
Sit here.
I'll go make her feel better.
Okay.
Where did she go?
She's really something.
Put a lot of ketchup on it please.
A little more.
What kind of depression are you suffering from?
You eat well and sleep well.
Stop belittling me.
Everyone's a couple holding hands, but since I have nothing to hold, I'm going to hold a hotdog stick.
Um Soon-ae.
Stop eating that.
Hey!
Excuse me!
What?
Me?
No.
The lady right here.
Me?
Yeah.
You're really asking....
for me and not my sister?
What is it?
Do you live near here?
Yeah.
Can I meet with you at least once?
Me?
This is my business card.
I hope you're not insulted.
I'm not insulted.
It's not like this hasn't happened before.
It's especially nice to meet you since you live nearby.
I'm Henry Kim, a trainer at the Queen Queen Fitness center across the street.
You'd see if you came, but....
80% of our club members are women.
Let's go.
Don't you want to lose weight?
I'm confident that you'll lose weight!
In two months, I can cut your weight by half.
If I look half the size, then I'd be a stick, not a human being!
It must be so hard for you in several ways.
It's hard.
Do you know how it feels when just standing......
is hard?
I know.
Even just a few months ago.....
you used to listen to me when I was having a hard time with my in-laws.
Do you know how I feel right now?
I feel like I bought a movie ticket thinking that it was....
a romantic movie, but it turned out to be a hardcore horror movie.
Almost as if.....
the genre of my life changed one day.
What note is this?
C.
How about this one?
D.
Very good.
You're doing well.
Now...
this is...
C.
This is....
D.
Okay?
Then starting now....
play C and D a hundred times.
Hundred times?
Basics are important in music.
I told you.
Beethoven debuted in the music industry when he was 7 years old.
That was because he had strong basics.
Did Beethoven play....
C and D a hundred times?
He played it more than that.
But....
since you're not going into the music industry or anything....
just play it a hundred times.
Do it correctly.
Wow, you're practicing hard!
I'm trying to teach her the basics, which are the most important.
Keep going.
Hurry.
We made spicy noodles at home so I brought some.
Do you eat things like this too?
Well...
I don't really like it that much....
but it's my principle not to reject....
a fan's effort.
Thank you.
Isn't it heavy?
Take it easy.
It's okay.
Gi-hyuk!
Fool.
How have you been?
What?
That's not like her.
-She's being shy. - Me?
I quit the workshop....
and I've been working at a restaurant.
Yeah!
Come by once.
Come by where? This isn't a playground.
How's Hye-soo doing?
Seriously.
We were best friends in college...
but turned out this way because we were all busy making a living.
You guys are getting married?
When?
In May?
Hey!
Congratulations!
I promised to make a table for you guys when you guys got married.
Of course.
Even though I quit the workshop.....
I can still make it.
The two friends that I love the most....
are getting married.
Yeah.
Let's get together....
before the wedding.
Okay.
Oh my gosh.
You scared me.
What are you doing here?
Are you slacking off work?
It hasn't been that long.
No.
I was working really hard....
but I had to take a phone call.
This isn't the time to make personal phone calls!
Don't you see customers rushing in?
Hurry!
Do you want to receive a warning?
Okay.
Is she a man or a woman?
She's so frustrating.
What's the point of liking someone when you look like that?
What a fool.
Hey.
What do usually give your boyfriend as a gift?
No, I'm just curious.
I've only received gifts but never gave any.
Embroidery?
Hey.
Who likes stuff like that?
It's not even worth anything.
They like it?
I'm not going to do this!
My eyeballs are about to rip off.
I'm on my way home.
I miss you.
You're coming home now?
Yeah.
I came to see mother.
I heard she's not feeling well so I brought some vitamins too.
Oh really?
Yeah.
Honey!
You came?
Yeah.
Mom, I heard you're not feeling well.
Bang Gwi-nam....
brought you vitamins.
Really? Thank you.
I'll eat them well.
Hurry and head home.
He hasn't even sit down yet.
Do you want some tea?
Yeah.
Honey, he must be tired.
Hurry and head home. Your wife must be waiting for you.
Mother, are you upset because of what happened yesterday?
No, I'm not upset. You're worrying about useless things.
Go home and get some rest.
Hey!
Go and rest!
Okay.
Then I'll get going.
Yeah.
Bye!
Yeah.
What are you doing right now?
I'm putting on a show.
I don't want my son to feel overwhelmed by me....
so I'm putting on a show.
It's raining a lot.
Yeah.
I hope it keeps raining until tomorrow.
Why?
Just because.
Because you don't want to....
go to the countryside with grandma?
Honestly, I kind of want to rest tomorrow.
I'm tired.
Then just stay home.
I'll go alone.
How can I do that when grandma asked us to come?
She said that we don't have to go if we're tired.
Honey.
You can't take what the elders say so literally.
I told you that if they say it's okay, then it means that it's not okay.
This is the same thing.
If we don't go because she said we don't have to, we'll get in twice the trouble...
for not going and for being clueless.
Why?
It's just like that.
Listen to what I say carefully.
If they say that we don't have to come, then that means we must go.....
and when they say that they don't need something....
then that means we need to buy it for them no matter what....
and when they say that they don't need to eat korean barbeque for dinner because it's expensive....
then we need to buy them korean barbeque that night no matter what.
Why?
I don't know why either, but it's just the way it is.
If it keeps raining....
then wouldn't the plans get canceled?
Rain more.
More.
More!
Honey!
What's going on?
Mom, Bang Gwi-nam, and his wife are....
going to Sung-ju.
Really?
I'm glad.
Then should we take some boxes?
Of course.
We should take some.
Fold a few boxes and....
put it in the trunk.
Okay.
Bang Jang-goon.
Do you want to come with?
My midterms are coming up.
Yeah.
No matter how smart someone is.....
he can't beat someone that's hard working.
But....
this isn't what you're getting tested on.
Really?
What's the point of studying hard.....
when it's not even the right material?
How can you beat someone when you don't even know what you're being tested on?
That's why you're last place!
The test is on this!
Oh, then the second aunt....
was raised in Sung-ju?
Yeah.
Back then, our family wasn't doing well financially....
so your relatives.....
took turns raising your uncle, Bang Jung-bae.
He lived there until elementary school.
Oh.
That's why he still has an accent.
An accent?
Me?
I speak Seoul!
No, you have quite a bit of an accent.
Right?
I do have an accent.
It seems like it after Cha Yoon-hee mentioned it.
It's nice.
Aunt!
Bang Gwi-nam is here!
Welcome!
Are you Bang Gwi-nam?
Yeah.
Hello!
Oh my goodness.
He's so handsome.
We couldn't go to Seoul because our legs hurt....
but we still watched the show on TV....
and just cried.
If your grandfather was still alive....
he would've been very happy.
Yeah.
Oh yeah.
This is Bang Gwi-nam's wife.
Hello.
Wow, are you Bang Gwi-nam's wife?
Yeah.
I'm glad you came.
She looks okay in person.
You're right.
She looks okay in person.
Did I look bad when you saw me on the show?
No, you didn't look bad but....
everyone in town watched the show and said....
that you look like a fox.
Hey!
How can you say that to her so bluntly?
Aunties!
I'm here too.
Bang Jung-bae, your cutie!
Oh, you're here?
How come you keep getting older every time I see you?
You keep losing more hair each time we see you.
He used to be so cute when he was little.
I know.
Who would've known that he would turn out like that?
Don't I look more serious?
You should visit the graveyard with the guys.....
and go up to Mt. Gaya.
We'll take the girls over there.
Where?
Oh, over there. Okay, okay.
Grandma, where's that?
It's a nice place.
Hey, hey.
You can't pull it out like that.
Don't take the stem off....
and pull it as close to the top as possible.
Like this.
Oh my goodness, you pulled out the whole stem!
You can't do it like this.
I'm sorry, I've never done it before.
No one knows how to do it from the start.
Watch and learn.
That's true.
Learn.
Okay.
I will.
This is nice.
It is, right?
When you were little, I used to bring you here in the Spring.
Oh really?
Bang Gwi-nam, hold on.
Yeah.
Let's take a break over there.
Okay.
Let's sit down here.
Okay.
Bang Gwi-nam.
Yeah.
It's hard for a man to behave well....
in between his wife and his mother.
But your father always took my side first in any case.
Even though your mother must've been upset.
She was.
She had a lot of stress.
So you should take after your father....
and think of your mother first.
Would you have more time to live with your mother or with your wife?
Bang Gwi-nam....
is just watching out for his wife because she's so aggressive.
Even I feel like that....
so it would be worse for Bang Gwi-nam.
Is that true?
Is Cha Yoon-hee aggressive?
No, grandma.
Then?
Grandma, this is what I think.
I think that what mom really wants.....
is...
for me to create a happy family and live welll.
That's true.
But...
if I take mother's side unconditionally, then....
I don't that's my duty towards the person....
that I'm living with.
You may think that that isn't a duty, but...
I think that it's a duty to think first about your mom that gave birth to you....
and I think that's the right thing to do.
Mom.
It must be hard for Bang Gwi-nam to understand since he doesn't have kids yet.
He doesn't know what it means.
I see what happened.
You must've been hurt.
It's just my greed.
They must have their own living style that they're used to.
You're being so considerate.
From my experience, Cha Yoon-hee is just kind of like that.
She hates being bothered and.....
she hates being nagged on.
Did she say she hated it because I was nagging?
I gave her a scolding.
But young people don't really listen.
And Cha Yoon-hee...
is a special case even in her age range.
She's very ambitious with work too.
Yeah.
I don't know what she's doing for her to be so busy.
I asked her awhile ago, and she doesn't even plan to have a baby.
She said that before.
I didn't know she was being sincere.
It's not like she's incapable to give birth....
so she should at least try.
As a woman, she should at least have her own baby.
I'm sorry.
It's nothing new.
I'm used to it.
I'm okay.
Grandma, the walk is so nice!
Right?
It's nice, right?
Where does this walk take us?
This walk?
Yeah.
You'll see when we get there. Follow me.
Hurry.
Hurry and come.
It must be a cultural site.
This is where King Se-jong's umbilical cord is.
What's that?
So this is where King Se-jong's sons' umbilical cords are buried.
That's amusing.
So you're talking about the umbilical cord of a newborn, right?
Yeah.
So graveyards aren't the only places that require good sites....
but there's also good sites to bury umbilical cords. So this is the best out of the best sites for that.
I see.
So women that were trying to get pregnant came here from all over the country...
and so they prayed to Buddha and received the spirit before going home.
I see.
What?
Think that you're receiving spirits with a pure heart....
and ask to have a healthy baby within this year.
I heard there isn't a woman that didn't get pregnant after coming here.
You guys need to have a baby to understand how it feels to be a parent....
and that's how you become a real adult.
These are pine needles.
Tell your husband to poke his head with them....
50 times before and after he sleeps.
I heard that hair grows fast if you massage with these.
Thank you.
This wouldn't help.
There's a lot of good remedies in Seoul.
Buy and use them instead.
If you look carefully, Bang Jung-bae is....
is actually really good looking.
Aunties.
Everyone knows that.
Go inside.
Good bye.
Yeah.
Next year, come with a baby boy.
Oh, aunt.
Stop talking about sons.
It doesn't matter if the baby's a girl or a boy as long as the baby's healthy.
Yeah.
Whether it's a boy or a girl....
just have one and bring the baby.
We....
Okay.
I just....
tried it because I was bored.
This is what nice girls do.
You must really be trying to be a nice girl.
I mean...
well...
not necessarily.
You don't have to turn into a good girl.
If you're both pretty and nice....
then it's too overwhelming.
Since I got a present....
I should get you something too.
Let's go.
How's this?
It's pretty.
Hold on.
Of course I'm going.
Bang Min-ji, what should I do?
Something came up....
so I don't think I can take you home.
It's okay.
I actually have plans at night too.
Really?
I'm glad.
Then go. I'll call you.
Okay then.
Cha Se-gwang!
I....
don't have plans at night.
I can't make plans at night when I'm supposed to see you.
From now on...
can't you do that too?
When you're seeing me.....
don't make other plans.
Can't you do that for me?
If you can't.....
then forget it.
Hello?
It's me.
I'm sorry.
I don't think I can go today.
I'm with my girlfriend.
What should we do?
Let's go eat something delicious.
You guys are back.
Mother, did you have a good time?
Yeah, I'm tired.
Bring mother...
some honey tea.
Okay.
Mother, I'll do it.
Will you? Thank you.
Cha Yoon-hee.
Um Chung-ae was really upset.
If you decided to stay, you should do better.
I think mother has a misunderstanding about me.
That's not a misunderstanding.
Um Chung-ae just doesn't....
like the way you are.
Must I get dragged here on a weekend and listen...
to her complain for hours?
I'm really tired of it.
I'm sorry.
But no one is loved from the beginning.
It's going to be hard, but we'll just have to work around it.
Yeah.
Good luck.
I hope you do, for the sake of....
peace in the family.
But it won't be easy.
What?
Why not?
You'll have to see for yourself.
It's not like you....
listen to others anyways.
What's wrong with her?
This is for sure where he lives, right?
Yeah, it is for sure.
Is he not home yet?
What?
How did they know that Yoon Bin lives here?
Rumors must've spread already.
What are you guys doing here?
You little girls are already following after guys?
We just want to give our gifts.
Gifts?
Do you know him?
Yeah.
I know him very well.
Then can you give him our gifts?
Okay.
I'll deliver them because it feels personal to me.
I, too....
had times like you girls.
I see.
But....
you guys can't tell other girls about this place.
If all the other girls come here....
then it would be so inconvenient for him.
Yeah, we won't tell!
Good bye!
Thank you!
Yeah.
I used to do this a lot too.
Here.
Thank you.
And....
these too.
What's this?
I really didn't tell anyone.
I really didn't tell anyone, but....
they somehow knew....
and were waiting in front of the house.
Who?
Fan girls.
Fan girls?
Yeah.
They looked young. Maybe....
middle school girls?
Middle school girls were waiting for me in front of the door?
Yeah.
They wanted to give these to you.
But Yoon Bin....
don't worry.
I made them promise....
not to tell anyone that you live here.
I'm sure they understood.
Is this me?
They really drew me?
It doesn't look like me at all.
But they're middle school girls.
They're not good, but what's important is their fanship.
Maybe I should've given them an autograph.
It looks nice.
Honey.
Bang Jang-goon came too?
Yeah.
Where's the thing....
I asked for?
It's downstairs. You can just go down and choose.
Let's go, Bang Jang-goon.
Okay.
Hi.
Are you here to look at books?
What book are you reading?
It's a review book for history.
The important points are well organized in a simple way.
The explanations are simply put without too much words.
You must be a very smart friend.
Oh yeah.
This is my dad.
Oh, really?
Hello.
I'm Bang Jang-goon's school friend....
Park Man-shik.
Park Man-shik?
The student right ahead of Bang Jang-goon....
is Bang Man-shik from the other class.
We need to set beating him as our primary goal.
I secretly looked at Park Man-shik's report card.....
his grades are similar to Bang Jang-goon's in other subjects.....
but his grade in history is higher.
So....
you must....
really like history.
Yeah.
He gets really good grades in history.
What did you get on your last test?
46.
I really can't catch up to you in history.
It's nothing.
It's possible if you try.
Is this the melon that you brought from there?
Isn't it good?
It's good.
But...
I still feel uncomfortable with your mother-in-law.
Is she still upset?
Does she treat you badly?
It's not that she treats me badly....
but there's still a bad vibe.
She's so close-minded.
Things like that can happen.
That's not right, mother.
What's not right?
The answer is given when you think about it from their perspective.
Imagine that my older brother ran off with almost $100,000 of our money.
If you knew that....
would you just let it go....
without saying anything to me?
I don't think you would do that.
She's right about that.
Mom, you're definitely uptight.
You hold grudges.
Cha Yoon-hee.
Do you want to make your mother-in-law feel better?
Yeah.
Do you have an idea?
I told you earlier.
The answer comes out when you think from their perspective.
Mother.
When did I make you the happiest?
I don't know.
I don't know because I haven't experienced that yet.
I don't know about being happy.....
because of my daughter-in-law....
but I was the happiest because of my son-in-law....
when Bang Gwi-nam....
went with me to an outing with my friends.
He was already a great son-in-law....
but he showed up at that outing and called me mother.....
and treated all of my friends out.
He boosted up my ego so much.
All of my friends that brought their old husbands were so jealous of me.
Then...
the answer is given.
It did.
Yeah.
Mother.
You came?
Yeah.
Mother.
I....
wanted to take your friends out.
Regardless of the situation, you still got a new daughter-in-law....
and I think it'd be nice to formally introduce myself and buy them a meal....
as long as you're okay with it.
I'm fine with that, but it would be hard on you.
It's not hard.
Just set a date.
Actually....
our church people, the deacons, and especially our pastor....
you met them at church but it was too brief.
They seemed so disappointed.
They said that they had something they needed to say to you.
Our pastor is a person filled with grace.
I see.
Okay. I'm glad.
Thank you for bringing it up first.
It's no problem, mother.
When should we go?
She brought it up first.
She said that she wanted to formally introduce herself to my close friends and treat them to a meal.
But why is the pastor so late?
Oh, he's coming now.
Hello, pastor.
I'm sorry I'm late.
On my way, I ran into a bird that lost its way....
so I had to put it back in its nest.
Wow, you're so loving.
I have dust all over my pants from climbing the tree.
Our pastor is so loving.
This is my daughter-in-law.
Hello.
Yeah, I met you briefly last time.
Yeah.
Take a seat.
Should we?
Let's take a seat.
Our sister Um Chung-ae.
I'm not saying this because she's sitting in front of me....
but she's a mother-in-law that has an overflowing love for her daughter-in-law.
I'm not that great.
Even last week, she came to me.....
and asked me to pray for her daughter-in-law.
Really?
Thank you, mother.
You should also....
come inside the arms of the Lord....
and I'll be waiting for the day that you request.....
a prayer for your mother-in-law.
Okay.
Yeah. I'll try hard to evangelize.
Yeah, you should.
Then before we eat....
Um Chung-ae asked me to pray for her daughter-in-law.
We'll pray....
and then we'll eat.
Lord.
At this place....
our sister Um Chung-ae's daughter-in-law, sister Cha Yoon-hee, is with us.
Lord.
As a bird that lost its nest finds its mother....
you performed a miracle and made....
Um Chung-ae's lost son....
Bang Gwi-nam to move as her neighbor.
Thank you.
Amen.
But...
one thing....
one thing that I ask for....
is that....
our....
sister Cha Yoon-hee engages in.....
the blessing of giving birth and....
and having a child.
Amen.
To this person who....
has been living selfishly for herself....
until nearly her forties....
let the the greatness of a life....
and the joy of bearing a child be known to her.
She's old, Lord!
Amen.
We are running out of time!
Lord, please understand.
Please decipher Um Chung-ae's desperate plea....
and help our sister Cha Yoon-hee....
to experience....
the joy of bearing and....
raising a child.
Amen!
Amen.
She should sleep at home. What is she doing here?
I told you that I'd come if you don't give child support on time.
Contact me directly. The money that he gives you is my money anyways.
That's the guy, right?
The guy you liked for 10 years.
No.
Your face makes it so obvious and you still haven't got caught?
I didn't get caught!
Father-in-law was in my dream.
You too?
He gave me a baby bottle.
Isn't this a baby dream?
Can you not digest well?
Yeah, I feel a little chilly too.
I'm sure you are.
What?